Being asked to be a Maid of Honor or a Bridesmaid is wonderfully heart-warming and, hell it's in the title, an honor. But it's more than just a title and proof that you have a special bond with the Bride. It's a responsibility. The duties of the bridal party are vast and extensive, over both time and subjects.

Well one of my best friends has just gotten engaged and popped a question of her own to me...

So here is a step-by-step guide of what it really means to be a Maid of Honor in the form of my experiences and research over the next two years. I'm learning as I go along, so I might as well share!

Good luck and congratulations!

06 August, 2013

The Friendship

I thought that I would start this off with a look into mine and Britteny's friendship.

Britteny and I have been friends since we were in 7th grade. Though we didn't go to school together, we were both involved with a local theatre group. I didn't even know that we were the same age until we were in 8th grade and we talking about both going to our town's high school the following year.

We didn't really get to know each other until our freshmen year, when we had a lot of classes together. We walked to classes together, we hung out after school together, we did assignments together, and we continued participating in theatre together. (Sorry I don't have any photos from earlier on in our friendship. I didn't make a facebook account until senior year of high school, so I have to rely on photos that people had previously taken and uploaded of us.)

A friend's birthday party, Junior Year. 2007
After a performance of Once Upon a Mattress, Junior Year. 2007
We had classes together throughout all of highschool. We got involved in the same church group in junior year. In junior year we were also both involved with our school's elite chamber choir and we toured to Ireland together (and snuggled together on the plane). 

Chamber Singers Tour to Ireland, Junior Year. 2007
Junior Prom. 2007
Summer before Senior Year. 2007
During senior year of high school, Britteny and I were pretty much inseparable. Our class schedule was exactly the same except for last period (Britteny didn't want to take Physics with me).

Homecoming, Senior Year. 2007
Field Trip, Senior Year. 2007
Camber Singers Tour, Senior Year. 2008
Chamber Singers Tour, Senior Year. 2008
South Central Emmaus, Senior Year. 2008
Chambers Concert, Senior Year. 2008
(Yes, those dresses completely covered our pants.
Our choir director still didn't like them.)
Senior Prom. 2008
High School Graduation. 2008
We went to the same university and made a bunch of mutual friends. We continued participating in theatre together, as well as going to campus events.

Drag Dance, Sophomore Year. 2010
Hanging out in between classes, Junior Year. 2011
Bowling Trip Summer before Senior Year. 2011
Britteny and I always considered each other to be the sisters that we never had. (I'm an only child, and she has two brothers.) During our senior year of university we lived together in an apartment with two other friends, and our living situation really brought out that "sister" relationship. We learned to make up after fights, always tell each other what we were thinking, and to forgive. We support each other no matter what, and our past, both the good times and the bad times, make our friendship as strong as it is today. (Note to self: Reception Toast...)

Now I wish I could include some more recent photos of the two of us from less than two years ago. Maybe a photo of when she asked me to be her Maid of Honor. Unfortunately, I believe that the next photo we take together will be in 2015 (the year of the wedding). Remember that strong friendship I talked about? Yeah well, it's surviving a 9,000 mile separation. I've recently moved to New Zealand, and Britteny and I have been making sure that we stay in contact, thanks to Skype and iMessage. I'm aiming to be home about 6 months before the wedding, and will be extra attentive to every detail since I have a whole lot of distance to make up for.

As a fun little bonus before I wrap this up, here is a video that Britteny and I made together during an excursion to New York City in January of 2011. (Incoming: lots of really nerdy references.)


So that's the friendship! I love this girl so much and I am so happy to be a part of her "happily ever after!"

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