Being asked to be a Maid of Honor or a Bridesmaid is wonderfully heart-warming and, hell it's in the title, an honor. But it's more than just a title and proof that you have a special bond with the Bride. It's a responsibility. The duties of the bridal party are vast and extensive, over both time and subjects.

Well one of my best friends has just gotten engaged and popped a question of her own to me...

So here is a step-by-step guide of what it really means to be a Maid of Honor in the form of my experiences and research over the next two years. I'm learning as I go along, so I might as well share!

Good luck and congratulations!

06 August, 2013

The Relationship

I've introduced you to my friendship with Britteny, so now it's time to introduce you to her fiance!

Britteny and Jon have known each other for quite a while. They went to the same Catholic School, one year apart in age, from years K-8. I didn't meet Jon until he joined us at the high school.

Britteny and I were never really friends with him. We knew Jon, but he wasn't in choir with us and he wasn't in any classes with us due to being a year younger.
That all changed when we were in University.

Jon came to the same college that Britteny and I attended. We started spending more time with him and getting to know him during junior year, when he started working at our campus tutoring center with us. (I just realized that I forgot to mention this in my last post. Britteny was a Math Education major in university, and I just liked Math and eventually took it on as a minor. We both started tutoring fellow students our sophomore year. Jon, who was also majoring in Math Education, started working with us a year later.) We all even took a class about tutoring methods together. (Seriously, those were a lot of fun.. I'm linking them.) We got to know Jon a lot better from spending time with him at work.






Alright, I admit, you might find those lame and confusing if you know nothing about math or math related pick-up lines.. But I just had a great time re-watching them!

Towards the end of junior year, Britteny told me that she thought Jon liked her. Not long after, Jon confirmed it to me. That summer, they went on a few dates before confirming the relationship on the 6th of July, 2011.

Britteny and Jon's first photo as a couple at Britteny's 21st birthday party. 2011
Their relationship stayed steady (and sickeningly adorable) for the next two years.

NYC. 2011
I know it's blurry, but I think it's adorable!! 2011
New Year's. 2011/2012
Disney Vacation. 2012
Jon's Undergraduate Graduation. 2013
Summer. 2013
Two year anniversary. 2013
The Engagement

Jon originally wanted to propose on their two year anniversary, however he didn't have the ring back from the jeweler yet. He mentioned that the anniversary present hadn't come in yet and that he would give it to her soon. About two weeks later, Jon brought Britteny out to dinner for, as she was told, her birthday.

After dinner, Jon brought Britteny to a park and gave her the belated anniversary present. Jon had concealed the ring within three boxes. While Britteny worked her way to the center, Jon got down on one knee.

[After answering Jon's question, Britteny immediately texted me and asked to Skype. When we were on, I could see the happy couple together in Jon's car. It was then that I became the Maid of Honor (officially).]

Jon had one last plan for the evening. He brought Britteny to a restaurant where their families were waiting to congratulate them and celebrate.

Engagement. 2013
The Engagement Ring. 2013
The couple has already taken engagement photos, but unfortunately I don't have access to them. When I can, I will definitely post some.

The two plan to be married summer of 2015.

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